I've never really understood why some guys want to make the whole process of attracting a woman and keeping her attracted to them seem like such a complicated process.
I am of the belief, and experience seems to back this up, that making it as simple as possible is actually much better.
The moment that you try to complicate things, well, that is the moment that they start to get complicated.
A lot of smart guys have a problem with this, because they are always trying to extract as much detail as they can and because of that, they tend to make things seem way more complicated than they have to be.
Attracting a woman is simple.
It's not always easy to do, but it is still simple.
Make her feel like there is a reason to get to know you and hang around you and she will.
Make her feel emotions that others guys don't make her feel and she will want you.
Escalate her attraction and things will move to the physical level.
That's really all that you have to do.
In a nutshell.
However, most guys don't see it that way.
They get stuck on details that don't even matter.
They think that if they change one tiny element, that suddenly they will have massive success with women.
The fundamentals never change, though.
You can be one of those guys who debates on whether it is better to wear a button down shirt or not.
You can be one of those guys who debates on whether or not you should wear stuff that really makes you stand out or not.
Or, you can be one of those guys who just flat out understands how to create attraction with a woman and doesn't have to worry about those little details.
Let me tell you this.
If you lose a woman's interest because you had on the wrong color shirt, or because you weren't rocking a silver chain around your neck, you probably never really had her interest in the first place.
Or, if you did have some of her interest, it wasn't really enough to call it ATTRACTION.
Ever see a guy who doesn't dress that well, or who doesn't seem to worry about all of those little details have no problems attracting women? Of course you have.
We all have.
The reason why they don't worry about those little details is because when it comes to attracting a woman, simple is usually a better way to go.
If you get the fundamentals right - everything else falls into place.
Here are a few of the fundamentals that you need to get right: 1.
Escalation/Seduction Let the other guys who don't get women worry about whether or not black or blue is the right color to wear.
Let the other guys spend hours in the jewelry store, trying to pick out the "right" chain.
If you have the fundamentals down, none of that really matters.
She's not going to push you away because of the color of your shirt, or the fact that you are rocking the "wrong" shoes.
If she does, chances are - you had the fundamentals all wrong.